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COACHING THAT REBUILDS EVERY PART OF YOUR LIFE

This isn’t just about healing your past. It’s about building your future.

If you’re here, something in your life isn’t working anymore. Maybe it’s addiction. Maybe it’s your marriage. Maybe it’s your habits, your mindset, or the quiet weight of not living up to who you know you were made to be. Whatever it is—freedom starts here.

We don’t just focus on recovery. We focus on becoming.


The goal isn’t just to break bad patterns. It’s to step into spiritual authority, lead with clarity, and build a life that honors God—physically, mentally, financially, and spiritually.

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THE BLUEPRINT

RECOVERY → DISCOVERY → ACTION

Everybody walks through three key stages inside our coaching:

Recovery: Break free from strongholds—pornography, addiction, alcohol, drugs, isolation, shame, and self-sabotage. This is the beginning of healing and honesty.

Discovery: Reconnect with your identity in Christ. Clarify your calling. Rebuild your confidence and leadership at home, at work, and within.

Action: Build habits, rhythms, and discipline across your whole life—your marriage, your mindset, your finances, your health, and your spiritual walk.

This process doesn’t just clean up your past. It builds your future—with purpose, structure, and real accountability.

Industry Leading Marriage and Men's Coach

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THE ALSO / AND GROUP

Where Career Meets Calling — and Purpose Meets Peace

This isn’t about choosing between your career or your calling.

 

It’s about living in alignment with both.

The ALSO / AND Group is a weekly coaching community for men and women ready to redefine success, live with intention, and find joy in both their work and their purpose. Led by Tom Lyman, this space blends bold conversation with real transformation—grounded in the proven principles of The Blueprint Method.

Each session is focused, faith-led, and practical.

 

You'll walk away with tools that help you bring meaning into your current path—while building a life rich in peace, clarity, and fulfillment. If you’re tired of chasing success that leaves you empty, and you’re ready for more, this is your invitation.

WORK WITH TOM

Industry Leading Marriage and Men's Coach

ONE-ON-ONE COACHING

Private coaching for men ready to dive deep and take full ownership of their growth—spiritually, emotionally, and physically.

This is a high-level container for men who want personalized support and no room to hide. You’ll work directly with Tom to identify the patterns keeping you stuck and build the mindset, structure, and discipline to lead your life, family, and faith from a place of strength.

If you want focused, one-on-one guidance with no fluff and full accountability, this is for you.

GROUP INTENSIVE FOR MEN

Tom’s 12-week group intensives are designed for men who are ready to get honest, stay accountable, and do the work. These aren’t passive group calls—they’re immersive, high-trust environments built for breakthrough.

Each group is limited to 4–6 men. You’ll meet weekly on Zoom with Tom, walk through the Blueprint Method together, and stay connected through a private group chat for ongoing support and accountability.

You’ll confront what’s been holding you back—then build the habits, structure, and spiritual strength to move forward with purpose.

MARRIAGE INTENSIVES: HOPE BEYOND BETRAYAL

Led by Tom and his wife Lana, these private 2.5-day intensives are designed for couples walking through betrayal, infidelity, or deep disconnection. This is raw, honest, heart-level work—not therapy, not quick fixes. You’ll come face to face with the patterns, pain, and wounds that have kept you disconnected. Together, you'll learn how to rebuild trust, re-establish safety, and communicate with clarity, grace, and truth.

You'll also gain tools for managing triggers, repairing intimacy, setting spiritual foundations, and moving forward with a shared vision. Most importantly, you’ll invite God back into the center of your marriage—and begin to write a new story together.

If you're both ready to show up fully, healing is possible—and this is where it starts.

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COACHING IS FOR YOU IF...

You’re tired of white-knuckling your way through the same cycles. You’ve tried the books, the podcasts, the Sunday sermons—but you're still stuck. You want to lead your home, grow in faith, and take back control of your time, mind, body, and purpose.

You're not just looking for inspiration—you’re looking for transformation.

Let's rebuild together.

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