THIS ISN’T ABOUT SELF-HELP.
Tom Lyman Coaching exists to help men rise—out of addiction, passivity, and confusion—and into purpose, discipline, and leadership. Through Scripture-based coaching, high-accountability community, and real action steps, you’ll stop hiding and start living.
You don’t need another podcast, planner, or pep talk. You need truth. Structure. And a band of brothers who won’t let you go back to who you were.
IT’S ABOUT SPIRITUAL AUTHORITY, FREEDOM, AND PURPOSE.
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BUILT MEN
Forged in Discipline. Fueled by Purpose.
BUILT MEN exists to help men move from surviving to thriving by forging disciplined, purpose-driven lives with God at the center.
This is not about comfort.
Purpose isn’t discovered there.
It’s forged through discipline and obedience.
BUILT MEN is a brotherhood for men who are successful on the outside but frustrated on the inside. Men who know there’s more, and are ready to do the real work required to build lives marked by clarity, integrity, and strength.
This is not therapy.
This is not hype.
This is real work, with real men, under a clear standard.
Each week, you’ll step into a structured, God-centered environment grounded in Scripture, practical application, accountability, and brotherhood. You’ll be challenged to lead yourself, your family, and others well—spiritually, mentally, physically, financially, and relationally.
You don’t need to be perfect here.
But you do need to be willing.
If you’re tired of surviving, done with autopilot, and ready to build a life that actually reflects who you were created to be, this room was built for you.
REAL BROTHERHOOD. LASTING BREAKTHROUGH.
You’re Not the Only One Struggling. But You Could Be the First to Change Everything. Your freedom impacts more than just you. When you heal, your family heals. When you rise, others follow. That’s why we don’t do this alone. Our coaching environments are built for honesty, brotherhood, and action—so you can finally break the cycle and build something that lasts.
Here are other ways we help:
ONE-ON-ONE COACHING
A personalized coaching track for men who want direct, high-accountability support in breaking free from addiction, gaining clarity, and growing spiritually, emotionally, and physically. Tailored to your unique challenges, goals, and pace.
GROUP INTENSIVE FOR MEN
12-week cohorts of 4–6 men walking through Recovery → Discovery → Action together. It’s raw, honest, and life-changing.
MARRIAGE INTENSIVES
A 2.5-day breakthrough experience for couples, led by Tom and his wife, Lana. Designed for hope, healing, and restoration.
SPEAKING & EVENTS
Tom brings bold truth and real hope to churches, retreats, conferences, and men’s gatherings.
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5 KEYS TO BREAK FREE & REBUILD
This short, powerful resource will walk you through the exact five principles that helped Tom—and now hundreds of other men—step out of shame and into spiritual momentum.
You weren’t made to carry this alone. Start your journey here.
A straightforward guide for Christian men ready to stop circling the same struggles and start living with purpose.
FROM ADDICTED AND ASHAMED TO BOLD AND BUILT.
Tom knows what it’s like to feel stuck. Porn and sex addiction, spiritual apathy, shame, pride, alcohol and drug abuse, suicidal thoughts, and an overall lack of purpose—it nearly cost him everything.
But God.
Now, Tom speaks life and purpose into men around the country—helping them take back their identity, their families, and their faith. His story isn’t just powerful. It’s a reminder that no one is too far gone.
